8 changes you need to make to avoid getting ruined in a chaotic world
I don’t know if you’ve noticed, but the world is not predictable. There is no one place you can reliably settle and know with confidence that shit won’t go south at any point.
The 7 habits of insanely prolific creators
If you were to ask me who my idols were, I quickly think of people like Picasso, Asimov, DaVinci, Aphex Twin, Agatha Christie, and Ridley Scott.
10 subtle behaviours that are killing your ability to lead with brilliance
You don’t need to be the CEO of a glitzy corporation to be a leader. We lead as small biz owners. We lead when we write and share online. We lead as siblings. We lead as coaches. We lead in our schools. We lead our families.
9 little life hacks that will instantly turn your frustration into excitement
There’s no better teacher than bouncing around like a wet poodle in the washing machine of life for several decades.
7 subtle behaviours that are screwing up your relationships
Decades of clumsily spoiling my relationships, combined with an unhealthy obsession into human behaviour and attraction-dynamics has compelled me to write this for you love-birds.
The happiest introverts I know avoid these four little things
Despite a recent resurgence, ‘introvertedness’ is still regarded as something of a deficiency, or even a taboo, particularly in the extroverted ‘West.’
5 simple changes that will make your life 10X more enjoyable
We have the power to change our perspective and thus behaviour instantly. I’ve always said that our experience of life depends entirely on how we see things.
If you worry a lot, you need to read this
I have an extremely active imagination. Unfortunately, this has brought with it literally thousands of hours spent worrying.
11 tips for men: a cheat sheet for avoiding a life of misery
Men face a major challenge in navigating a complicated modern world. Few of us have had any meaningful male leadership, and most of us struggle in the face of a society that is brazenly anti-male.
13 subtle habits that quadruple your anxiety (I’m actually being serious)
I suffered from anxiety (hard) and still have my moments. That’s fine. It isn’t about never having anxiety — it’s about making peace with reality.
Writing every day for 14 years made me a luckier person.
(Here’s why showing up changed my life) I’ve written every day for at least fourteen years.
8 seemingly innocent habits that make you miserable
One thing I learned over years and years of amazing highs and terrible lows: We can make ourselves miserable doing things that appear totally innocent, and ‘not a big deal.’
6 subtle behaviours that make introverts 15X happier
Years of being secretly overjoyed at cancelled social arrangements have taught me much. The proper habits are all it takes to experience more joy more of the time.
16 subtle ways you lose her attraction, bro
Buckle in; it’s time for me to lose followers, so you don’t lose her attraction, bro.
11 subtle behaviours that make you instantly more likeable
I haven’t always been liked, and I don’t encourage anyone to go about trying to be liked.
8 innocent behaviours that age you twice as fast
I don’t know about you, but I love life enough to want to experience it for as long as possible. What do we do that ages us in mind and body? Here are my thoughts:
7 quick hacks to calm you instantly
I’m no stranger to anxiety, and stimulation hits me harder than many. Poor snowflake.
11 counterintuitive lessons that make life 20X better
None of the ideas I’m about to share with you came from any self-help book. (Ok, maybe a couple).
This one behaviour separates the successful from the struggling masses.
I’m turning 38 this year and am fortunate to have been through a lot. Life has a cyclical pace that can often feel ruthless and unforgiving. I may have been knocked down many times, but my obsessive need to figure shit out has helped me a ton too.